So..the title says it all..my son who is 15 came out to his father and I with his boyfriend(who I think is a lovely young man).Being gay is against our religion,but I’m a mother and being a good and loving mother to my son is more important than anything to me.
Sadly for my husband,he doesn’t think the same.He called both boys such horried things,I couldn’t even believe this man would say that to these young men..He told my son’s boyfriend not to come near us and made him leave.I obviously took my son to his room and tried helping him stop cry…later this night my husband told me that if we don’t “fix” our son he will leave us….I love my husband so much..but…my son is the only reason I wake up with a smile everymorning..and I really need help…
It would have taken a lot of guts for your son and his friend to tell you both, especially if he knew his dad would be against it. They are very brave. Your husbands views on the subject are his own problem and you and your son are not at fault. I’d tell him to leave if he wanted, but I’m sure he would calm down after a little while and think rationally. I think you know that your son needs you more than your husband does right now. Best of luck
